Food Network star Duff Goldman is sharing heartfelt memories and details about his “complex” relationship with fellow chef Anne Burrell, following her sudden death on June 17 at the age of 55.
Known for his work on Ace of Cakes and Kids Baking Championship, Goldman took to Instagram on June 19 to pen a tribute that reflected on their unique bond and their final meaningful conversation.
Reflecting on a Spirited Friendship
Goldman revealed that his friendship with Burrell began around 2006. He recalled an early gesture of support during a difficult time she faced, making her a cake that simply stated, “Don’t let the bastards win.” He noted that she truly embodied that message throughout her life.
Their relationship was marked by a “spirited and somewhat acerbic back and forth,” a dynamic that Goldman clearly cherished. Despite the playful jabs and disagreements, a deep connection remained.
That Memorable Catfish Debate
Highlighting the nature of their bond, Goldman specifically recalled the last significant conversation they had before their paths began to drift. It was a “feisty debate about the merits of catfish.” This memorable exchange involved humorous insults, including terms like “trash fish,” “tastes like mud,” and “cake boy,” showcasing their mutual comfort with lighthearted teasing.
After this lively debate, their interactions became less frequent for several years. Goldman, however, always held out hope that Burrell was doing well and finding happiness wherever she was.
A Chance Encounter Filled with Light
That hope was uplifted by an unexpected reunion that occurred about a year or two ago. Goldman was attending a gala in New York City with his wife and young daughter, Josephine. While in the lobby, taking a break with his daughter, they rounded a column and ran into Burrell.
Despite the years of distance, their conversation left Goldman’s heart “lifted and full of light.” He didn’t detail the specifics of their talk but shared that it strongly seemed to him that Burrell “really had found a measure of happiness and love.” This observation resonated particularly given that Burrell had married Stuart Claxton in 2021, suggesting a period of significant joy and stability in her recent life. He noted her “genuine smile” for him and Josephine during that encounter.
Beyond the Tough Exterior
Goldman described Burrell as being “as tough as they come,” acknowledging the resilience required to navigate life’s challenges. However, he emphasized that beneath that strong exterior lay “a depth of compassion and kindness that was absolutely beautiful.”
Thinking about the “love and tranquility” she seemed to have found recently provided a small comfort to Goldman in the wake of the tragedy.
A Fisherman’s Farewell
Goldman concluded his moving tribute with a personal and poignant wish, referencing their past debate. He mused that if they are ever reunited, perhaps by slow-moving rivers, they could fish for catfish. He promised to teach her how to catch and cook “the best catfish” she ever had, a final, humorous nod to their unique relationship.
Burrell’s passing has led to an outpouring of tributes from across the culinary world, with fellow chefs like Buddy Valastro, Rachael Ray, and Bobby Flay sharing their own fond memories. Food Network also released a statement honoring her as a “remarkable person and culinary talent.” Friends noted she was in great spirits and actively engaged in life, even performing improv the night before her death, making the news all the more shocking for many. Anne Burrell is survived by her husband, Stuart Claxton, and her stepson, Javier. Goldman’s heartfelt reflection offers a personal glimpse into the life and impact of the beloved chef.
